Are you romantic?
Romance is a controversial word to many and it takes many to their younger ages when they had ‘good’ times with their partner. The controversial nature of this word could be mainly because this word is being used these days in the wrong context, and today’s media and entertainment industry is playing a key role in that.
In fact, to talk about any controversies is not my intent behind this post because that may be relative, and you may agree or disagree with me. Please feel free to do so. I am just expressing my feeling and understanding.
Now, just think about how to make us feel romance! For that, let’s think about that which invokes romance in our hearts. I don’t think there is a single reason I can think of which generates that feeling towards someone of the opposite gender. It is because it may sometimes be a look, or a smile, or a conversation, or an incident, or even it could be the location where you met that person that caused this emotion to be felt in your heart.
To me, romance is a feeling that attracts one person to another of the opposite gender and I also feel that it is not generated at the brain, rather probably at the heart. This is because there may not always be any logic behind the romance. In Malayalam there is a saying which means that romance doesn’t have eyes or nose. I feel like that’s true to some extent as we can’t really say who may evoke that feeling in our hearts (I am not at all talking about romance with non-Mahram). This is the general concept.
Now let’s think about it little further. We all agree that romance is a great feeling and everyone would want to feel that, but most of us really don’t know how to make us feel that, especially those who are married. Those who are not married, keep all your romance in your hearts for the one whom you are going to tie the knot.
When we get married, everybody say that he or she has lost their bachelor degree. But to me, that is not q lose, but the license for romance, i.e., legal romance with one’s life partner! Nobody can crucify or question you about that.
In short, if you are eager to experience romance, just start looking at your life partner with love today itself, as if you are seeing her for the first time in your life. If you are able to do this, and if your partner also has the same attitude, I am sure, you are going to have a different life… A romantic life, like that of the love birds… Yes, really! Give it a try! 🙂